Living through the post-grad months is pretty tricky… There is all of this excitement building up to graduation, all of those cards that tell you to “chase your dreams” and “reach for the stars” and all of the other cliche advice that Hallmark can muster up (I’m not sure what they really mean, either).
And then there are the questions… From parents, friends of parents, grandparents, friends of grandparents, strangers on the street… like, What are you going to do with that degree? and Have you found a job yet? and When are you planning on saving up for retirement?
When I was 23 and facing these things it was just kind of like, Geez, can’t I just have 5 minutes to enjoy the fact that I survived Finals and I can sleep in tomorrow?.
The answer is no. People want to know your life plan and they want to know now!
But before you start feeling overwhelmed with all of the things that graduation brings, here are 5 little pieces of advice that I really wish someone had told me when I was a recent grad!
1: Be prepared to feel a little let-down after you graduate.
College is just such an awesome experience; you have so much fun, you work so hard, you look SO forward to graduating and moving on! It’s like this huge milestone in your life that is really difficult to follow. So be prepared to feel a little bummed. The good news is that feeling this way is super common (1 in 4 graduates). And the other good news is that it only lasts a short amount of time (1-5 months).
2: If you don’t have experience in your field, it might take you a few months to find a job.
3: It might seem like everyone but you has it all together. They don’t.
4: It is ok to hate doing the thing you went to school for.
I never changed my major in college. I loved my major. I assumed that would love doing it as my career, too. But when I landed my first “real” job out of college, I really and truly hated doing it in “real life” (I was a paralegal, by the way). Your major is not some permanent life branding. The important part is to realize that you can apply aspects what you did learn from your major to any job!
Here is some proof that your major is not the only thing that matters:
Most Employers Don’t Care What Your College Major Was
Why I Let My Daughter Get a ‘Useless’ College Degree
5: There is no shame in switching careers.
New jobs are learning experiences and they are meant to be hard. But there is definitely a difference in having a tough time adjusting to “grownup life” and being in the wrong career
. You should not
be counting down to retirement 2 months into your new job. And if there is ever a good time to make a career change, it’s now! So what
if your education is in something different? Find out what it would take to do what you love and make it happen! 25 years is a long time to be miserable!
Tips for changing careers:
14 Secrets to Career Change Success
A Step-By-Step Plan to Change Your Career to Something You Love
How to Switch Careers
Whether you’re dealing the frustration of job searching or the sadness of graduation, don’t worry… Everything will turn out the way it is supposed to!
Just remember to step back from time-to-time and see the big picture! 🙂
Do you have any advice/questions to add to this?